I normally donot care for the chain letters,or emails that you are supposed to forward to friends.However i received this one tonite and it touched several nerves.I feel since it touched me it may hit a place with you.This is not my written work.It was sent to me from my aunt.Again i usually don't like to print other's work but i like this piece.

Have a seat....relax...and read this slowly.

I Believe



I believe-

That we don't have to change

friends if we understand that friends change.

I believe-

That no matter how good a friend is,

they're going to hurt you every once in a

while and, you must forgive them for that.



I believe-

That true friendship continues

to grow, even over the longest distance.

Same goes for true love.

I believe-

That you can do something in an instant

that will give you heartache for life.

I believe-

That it's taking me a long time

to become the person I want to be.



I believe-

That you should always leave loved ones with

loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I believe-

That you can keep going long after you can't.

I believe-

That we are responsible for

what we do, no matter how we feel.



I believe-

That either you control your attitude

or it controls you.

I believe-

That regardless of how hot and steamy a

relationship is at first, the passion fades and there

had better be something else to take its place.

I believe-

That heroes are the people who do what

has to be done when it needs to be done,

regardless of the consequences.



I believe-

That money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I believe-

That my best friend and I can do anything

or nothing and have the best time!

I believe-

That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when

you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.



I believe-

That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to

be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I believe-

That just because someone doesn't love you the way you want

them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I believe-

That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences

you've had and what you've learned from them and less to

do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.



I believe-

That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others.

Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I believe-

That no matter how bad your heart is

broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I believe-

That our background and circumstances may have influenced

who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.



I believe-

That just because two people argue, it

doesn't mean they don't love each other, and just

because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I believe-

That you shouldn't be so eager to find

out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I believe-

That two people can look at the exact

same thing and see something totally different.



I believe-

That your life can be changed in a matter

of hours by people who don't even know you.

I believe-

That even when you think you have no more to give, when a

friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.

I believe-

That credentials on the wall do not make

you a decent human being.



I believe-

That the people you care about most in

life are taken from you too soon.

You can send this to

all of the people that you believe in.

I believe-

I just did.

PICS AT MY AUNTS HOUSE

Fridat night after a very loud debate between myself and a friend,over a misunderstanding of words. I thought about a comment she made.

" you are lookin for everyone to meet,to high of expectations.You will never be happy".

I will tell you after she said that i cried. I didn't cry because she hurt me,or even if there was some truth to her statement. I CRIED that she viewed me in such a shallow way. And why am I not worth asking or looking for better.

Sould a person just settle,not strive to have a better way of life?
I try to be fair,as non-judgemental as i can be, honest,loving.
I try to treat others with respect.So shouldn't i be entitled to the same?

Because,i would like to meet a man that feels like i do about,honesty,commitment. She said i was " not easy to please,and should be easier on people ". I SHOULD LOOK THE OTHER WAY MORE!! and keep my mouth shut and i would be happy.

I HELPED push my husband out the door, he would get tired of the other woman and the porn.That i made it to hard for him to be himself! . Maybe i need to find a new friend.

Junebug

Was thinking about these,they were my fav. candy.
WHAT WAS OR IS YOUR FAVORITE CANDY ??

JUNEBUG

Saturday nite i went out with a group of friends.This is the third time now in the last five weeks.I'm really starting to enjoy this new routine. We chose midnight bowling. OK, Now normally this would not be an issue ,but i cannot see well at night and i had two beers.I don't drink.I used to,but around 2000 i had stopped almost all drinking and would only have had a glass of wine once in a while.

I had not eaten hardly anything on saturday,so the beer was buzzing and the lights go out,everything is glowing and we start to bowl.I usually bowl very badly. I could not beleive my night, STRIKE,STRIKE,SPARES. I was kickin bootie. So,i guess for me the key to a good game of bowling is to be slightly drunk and blind .Oh yeah,and i'm on my laptop blogging and searching the net for a friend. Then Pretty and I get into Randy's blog and she is kickin his butt over a Leo Sayer comment.

I try to explain the "stream" to my group and they are sitting there reading about beaver speedos,dancing chickens and Pretty Rubble and I debating the best muppet characters. I wander if i will get re-invited out next weekend .WHOOT WHOOT

I had a great time,even played air guitar with a guy in my group.He is a big guitar player and all his kids play instruments ,so do my kiddos so it was fun for everyone.

But of course there is always a kink in a string of good days,yesterday the dogs got into the trash!! So, you can imagine alot of Mr.Clean and Frebreeze.

I started working on the menu for the catering job,i submit it friday for approval.It is freezing and they are calling for more snow. I want to thank everyone for the warm welcome back,and advice.

Junebug